Hello dear readers. I want to start off by apologizing for posting such a lame post previously. I suppose the story wasn’t bad, but I feel I was letting down people who wanted to learn about writing or mental health issues. Let’s see what I can come up with for all of you today.
To start off, I think I am getting fairly advanced in my recovery from Bipolar. Now, there is a hurdle I have to go over. I have to be able to keep reminding myself that I am a person with special needs, not the least of which is medication and Psychiatric help. I can recall a few times I was at this point, where things seemed to be going good and I got complacent. One such time I had a few different life events happen that very nearly put me in serious danger. I hadn’t spoken to a young woman I was once very infatuated with, who liked me as a friend but no more. Sitting in my apartment all alone for weeks and months at a time, I tried to reach out a couple of times, but it is a sad thing to say that there are some people who you can make a mistake with, whether it be something you control or not, and they never forgive you. One day I got the new phone book for Edmonton and looked up one of these young women and called her. She even answered. I said who I was and then when she answered, I replied that it was good that at least she didn’t scream and hang up on me. I tried to explain to her that I had been going through some rough stuff but had gotten treatment and that basically I kind of needed a friend at the time. She threw it in my face that I wrote some irrational letters to her that she had kept to use as evidence against me and also that she pretty much didn’t care if I lived or died. That was really harsh. I forget if that was the point I stopped taking my prozac or if I had done that earlier. Either way, it preceded a massive depressive episode in me. A short time later, I took an overdose of about 100 Tylenol and some Lithium and a few other drugs I had in my medicine cabinet. For the next two days I slept and then for the two days after that I was sick and couldn’t even hold down water. (this story is paraphrased from my book, “Inching Back To Sane” by a million to one shot, my Dad had come by and slipped some money under my door and this was enough to get me to the hospital. I was very near death and hurt my family members very badly.
As for the other situation, it was the one that preceded my worst ever stay in hospital, which was also my last stay in hospital (when I say ‘hospital’ I mean the Psychiatric Hospital, Alberta Hospital Edmonton) again I was doing well. I had work, I had friends, I even had a car and a credit card. Then I decided to lower the dose of my mood stabililzer. Not eliminate, just lower. At this point I had stopped seeing a Doctor, I was just getting one of my old Doctors to refill my prescriptions and not having my regular blood tests done that were required of me, and which could have prevented the disaster that followed. I ended up in a state of severe psychosis and though I was on medications that had worked for me, the new Doctor assumed either I wasn’t taking my meds or the ones I was taking weren’t working, so he changed them around and I ended up much worse off. This began a hellish nightmare of 5 long months, a large part of them spent in solitary confinement with just a plastic mattress, an uncomfortable blanket and a plastic bottle for a toilet. Lesson learned: don’t get complacent. Get to see your Doctor, take all of your required medications. Talk to your mental health workers if you have them and find some if you don’t. I am very lucky to be a part of something called ‘the Community Living Program’ or ‘clip’ where I see a nurse on a regular basis who gives me part of my medication by time-release injection and then also see a Doctor who she consults with at least once a month. For anyone who is a family member of someone with a mental illness, I think this is something you constantly have to remind your loved one about. I was interested to learn that Schizophrenia as an example, will get worse over time. Even if you take your full required medication every day it is highly likely that you will need an increase in your dosage of anti-psychotic (please don’t mix psychotic up with psychopath) or you will get ill again.
Let me just say a few quick things about writing here, I feel that writing, for me, and for a lot of people in my community, is something not only that I feel everyone should do, but I also feel that it goes hand in hand with mental health. The first thing I did as I am sure I mentioned, was to keep a journal. If you want to keep one, but have problems getting started, think of it as a scrapbook. My sister saves movie receipts in hers from movies she liked and my Dad used to save all kinds of things like old cigarette packages that listed a price of 10c and candy bars and all sorts of things. My journal was like that in a way as well. I would write about movies I saw, make my own reviews, write about books I read or was reading. Basically, your journal is your best friend and some of the best advice I can give to start journaling is to write down what you would tell your best friend at the end of the day. So, I hope everyone feels a bit enlightened after reading this. Today I wrote a poem about sitting in elementary school watching the clock and watching the alley beside the school to see my dear sister coming home from the bus. I got my inspiration from a ‘poetry workshop book’ that I bought off of amazon.com. I get so many great writing resources from amazon, they simply have everything. Even my local 1,000,000 book public library can’t compare to what I can find on amazon, and quite often the book is as low in price as 1 cent plus a $6.49 fee for shipping. As an added bonus, it is really a neat feeling to come home to a package of some new goodie waiting for you. I do this for other people as well, I sent my ex-gf who is also one of my best friends a complete set of the original twilight zone series, I sent my niece a Karaoke machine. Credit cards can be fun. And they can be a disaster for the mentally ill, but I will talk about that in another blog. Perhaps tomorrow I will write a bit about my knowledge of personal finance, I am sure many of you out there could benefit from some of the books I have read and experiences I have had.
This is a statue in a special park made solely for the homeless people in Edmonton. In this small park, there is no closing time and you can drink alcohol without fear of police intervention. It is sad sometimes to see such symbols of suffering, but also very necessary